Frequency varies, sometimes monthly, sometimes not. All of my friends have dispersed across the country, got married, got divorced, bought houses, went crazy…the usual.
The one thing I need to say here is if that there is a real friend in your life that you value, you still have to invest in that friendship. Once you leave high school/college it’s not just “hanging out”. No one has that kind of free time anymore. If you really value a friendship, make sure you put in the effort. Don’t hang on to one-sided friendships where you are the only one trying, but make sure you’re putting in the effort in an actual good friendship. I know it doesn’t seem like that and you have that vibe that makes you think you’ll always be friends, but adult friendships take more than just a vibe.
Frequency varies, sometimes monthly, sometimes not. All of my friends have dispersed across the country, got married, got divorced, bought houses, went crazy…the usual.
The one thing I need to say here is if that there is a real friend in your life that you value, you still have to invest in that friendship. Once you leave high school/college it’s not just “hanging out”. No one has that kind of free time anymore. If you really value a friendship, make sure you put in the effort. Don’t hang on to one-sided friendships where you are the only one trying, but make sure you’re putting in the effort in an actual good friendship. I know it doesn’t seem like that and you have that vibe that makes you think you’ll always be friends, but adult friendships take more than just a vibe.