Be it a personality quirk, something they’re wearing, or just the way they look. What makes them instantly hot?

  • Passion. Idc if they like fixing up cars, playing guitar or painting. Although that’s not something instant. It’s more on a getting to know them basis but oh well xD

  • GladiusB
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    05 months ago

    Their taste in music. There aren’t enough metal heads in my life.

  • 1984
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    05 months ago

    Kindness, low ego, emotional intelligence, positive mindset.

  • @python@lemmy.world
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    Unapologetic intellectual curiosity! I absolutely love being around people who love learning new things and who get excited to find out more when they discover a new topic.
    It’s one of the first qualities that really stood out when I first met my husband - in a University lecture with 1000 people, he just nonchalantly sat down in the frontmost row because that’s where he could hear the professor the best and ask questions. No shyness or awkwardness about it, which I found incredibly inspiring for some reason! I usually hid in one of the back rows because I was massively overthinking everything and afraid that the professor might call me out when he sees me not paying attention.

  • Diva (she/her)
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    05 months ago

    being vegan is a big one for me, no bigger turn-off than watching someone eating a carcass

  • BurgerBaron
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    05 months ago

    I’m attracted to women with a more traditionally masculine personality or presentation. The helpers/protectors. Or non-binary. Bonus points if their whole Look is to deliberately intimidate strangers.

    TL;DR image basically this but in all black.

  • @planish@sh.itjust.works
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    5 months ago

    I confuse “attractive” and “naked” on a regular basis. I frequently have to remind myself to consider if I am seeing an attractive person, or just a person who currently is not wearing many clothes.