• @sartalon@lemmy.world
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    05 months ago

    I am 50 and was just recently diagnosed and started taking meds.

    The difference has been night and day. I still struggle to take my pull in the morning sometimes

    I look back on my life and wonder what I could have accomplished if I had been diagnosed and treated earlier.

  • @jubilationtcornpone@sh.itjust.works
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    05 months ago

    Lots of caffeine to bring you up during the day and alcohol to slow the racing thoughts at night. It’s no way to live.

    Every once in a while I still encounter parents who are hesitant to get their ADHD kid on meds. I try to explain to them that it’s not really about performance in school even if that’s where it was first noticed.

    It’s about keeping them from killing themselves or engaging in incredibly self destructive behavior.

    • Sparky
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      05 months ago

      I got to experience that a couple of days ago. I should probably get diagnosed…

      • MrScottyTay
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        05 months ago

        Please do, it’s very helpful in just the knowing aspect and being told explicitly how it can and does affect you. Can help you manage it better even when you’re not on meds

      • chocrates
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        05 months ago

        It has helped me mentally to understand. Medicine doesn’t do much except allow me to get things I just fucking don’t care about, done at work.

        If I want to be able to enjoy things in my free time I’ll have to be up all night, or drink myself asleep.

    • @monkeyman512@lemmy.world
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      05 months ago

      I find doing CrossFit multiple times a week helps at night. Turns out if you are sufficiently physically exhausted the thoughts tend to slow down. But if they don’t that’s fine because you are liable to pass out as soon as you stop moving.

  • chosensilence
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    05 months ago

    i thought i could do this since i stopped taking Ritalin around 10/11. huge mistake, massive lol. i am now in a PHP for psychiatric intervention. i have fucked up oh boy.

  • @Devjavu@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    05 months ago

    Life is taking me raw and tbh staying OFF of caffeine has helped me. Sleep is hella important for my insomniac ass.

  • @TempermentalAnomaly@lemmy.world
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    05 months ago

    I had a lovely conversation with another unmedicated parent. It’s the first time in a while that the mask came off a bit in that circle. It was nice.

    • @varyingExpertise@feddit.org
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      05 months ago

      Yeah, dunno. The problem is, that reality in this case is often perceived through a filter of “not being good enough” and “people dislike me” and stuff like that. It’s not really reality, is it.

      • Fedi-bitch
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        05 months ago

        Yeah, that’s the idea I was trying to get at, but I am not good with words.

    • setVeryLoud(true);
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      05 months ago

      Real question: what kind of content do you expect from this community?

      At its core, ADHD is just a vague, flexible list of symptom checkboxes that are part of the neurodivergent spectrum. Tick enough of the boxes, and you are considered ADHD. Tick enough of some other boxes, and you are considered autistic. Tick enough ADHD and autism boxes, and you’re AuDHD.

      The vast majority of people will tick at least one box from the neurodivergent list, this is what people mistakenly refer to as “everyone is a little bit autistic”, and is why these memes can apply to a lot of people, or not apply to you at all as someone with an ADHD diagnosis.

      Anyway, thanks for coming to my Ted Talk.

    • @SippyCup@lemmy.ml
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      05 months ago

      Caffeinated spite crew checking in. Tell me I can’t, go on, tell me. I fucking will. Fuck you.

        • RaivoKulli
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          05 months ago

          I think a lot of people in general feel this and think it’s specific to their job, mental disorder, what have you

          • @causepix@lemmy.ml
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            05 months ago

            Also, lets be real, tradesman is a pretty neurodiverse job choice.

            If you’re neurodiverse and good at school, you go into engineering. If you’re neurodiverse and better with your hands, you go into a trade. And there’s even some mobility between the two to make my point.