• SharkEatingBreakfast
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    22 years ago

    Legit question: if you’re with a guy, will he (typically) be looking forward to eventually having sex?

    • @Kecessa@sh.itjust.works
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      12 years ago

      As in if you’re in a relationship with a man, will he be looking forward to having sex?

      In the vast majority of cases the answer is yes, in a minority of cases the answer is that the person is asexual or simply insecure about their sexuality.

      That’s a discussion you need to have with your partner if you’re questioning yourself.

    • @michaelrose@lemmy.ml
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      -12 years ago

      Yes. Every man ever views a relationship as a ladder with sex or at the top. Men don’t date without expecting to progress towards sex.

      • @diskmaster23@lemmy.one
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        12 years ago

        That ain’t true. You can be friends with women. You can be friends with men. Even if you are attracted to them, you can be friends with them, but the thing is, you gotta respect the friendship. It’s not all sex.

      • @Kecessa@sh.itjust.works
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        2 years ago

        What about asexuals?

        What about men that have respect for their SO and don’t see sex as the final goal? I mean, stay with the same person long enough and that part of the relationship will not be as important after a while, does it means the relationship is dead to the man? Because I can’t explain why people stay together for decades then.

        Don’t most women have the same expectation that entering a love relationship with someone will lead to a physical relationship at some point?

        You’re talking as if women didn’t have sexual desires and… Well… Maybe you don’t, but your experience isn’t the majority’s.

        • What about asexuals?

          Nothing at all. We don’t exist. Even if we did exist we certainly wouldn’t be plotting to invade Denmark. Shh…

            • @EmptySlime@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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              Agreed fellow allosexual, Sex IS indeed OP.

              … What’s that? They said OPSEC? The fuck is an OPSEC? Some new part of the queer alphabet soup that I haven’t heard of?

              Sorry, that little skit played out in my head after reading your reply. It’s a weird thing when your intrusive thoughts turn to shitposting. I feel like that person on a leash meme where the thing I’m trying to control is a coked up shitpost tulpa.

              • @HikingVet@lemmy.sdf.org
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                12 years ago

                It’s alright, seems you may have been missed.

                OPSEC = OPerational SECurity.

                Anyway Denmark has been shelved for the time being.