Valid. But they are a friend, and there is genuine affection, but also a mutual understanding that neither has an interest in pursuing anything more, for whatever reason.
Until one changes. It might be fun to make a list of movies which explore THAT topic.
Masturbate.
Then once that is out of the way, go ahead and start working on whatever it is that is stopping you from boning.
Well, I just don’t feel ready to have a connection and I am not into casual sex.
What you need is a Friend With Benefits, a Fuck Buddy. No serious relationship, but also not a stranger.
For me sex is extremely tied to love, I don’t see myself doing it enjoyably eith someone I am not romantically invested in.
Valid. But they are a friend, and there is genuine affection, but also a mutual understanding that neither has an interest in pursuing anything more, for whatever reason.
Until one changes. It might be fun to make a list of movies which explore THAT topic.